I never said I was the perfect wife. But who knew I wasn't meant to be a wife or mother at all. Here I am, six months post-separation from husband #2 and I'm trying really hard to maintain my faith in the possibility that maybe, just maybe, I will finally be happy. Or maybe, I'm meant for other things. Perhaps I've been fighting my way down the wrong path. I think it's time to forget my fear, forget what others think, forget the 'shoulds'...it's time to pick up that machete and forge my own way...one day at a time.
"I'm not one to judge"..."She shouldn't judge other people"..."You have no right to judge me". I hear these phrases all the time and I have to admit to being guilty of uttering variations of them myself. Yet as I've unwillingly entered my 40's , I find myself doing exactly that ...judging the choices people make. Now before I am inundated with nasty comments about 'intolerance' and 'hypocrisy' let me make myself abundantly clear, I do not for one minute believe that it is OK to judge another person based on race, religion, sexual preference, level of education, or physical attributes (I'm sure I've missed some other important things but you get my drift), on the flip side however, I don't believe that we should be so non-judgmental that we blindly accept anyone or anything. The ability and duty to judge the actions of others is what defines us as a civilized society. It is the very act of imposing our judgm...
I really didn't want to do it, I didn't want to wade into this silly photoshop /body double war. As most of you already know, Ms. Moore was photographed for the December cover of W magazine. Since the public release of said photo, every Joe Blow Blogger has been spewing their opinion as to the validity/authenticity of this photo. OBVIOUSLY the freaking pic is photoshopped ...ALL magazine cover shots are photoshopped . The voracious appetite we celebrity haters worshippers have for reams of impossibly beautiful photos of our idols practically demands it. A lot of the blogs are claiming that Demi's head was superimposed on this picture of model Ana Rubjik as she glided down the catwalk in this uber -sexy Balmain dress. Really? Isn't that a bit of a stretch? Frankly, I really don't think Demi's body is so hideous in all it’s middle aged glory that it needs to be completely replaced in order to sell a magazine. Yes, I know she's *gasp* 47...far t...
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