Hypocrisy or Life Lesson's Learned?
"I'm not one to judge"..."She shouldn't judge other people"..."You have no right to judge me". I hear these phrases all the time and I have to admit to being guilty of uttering variations of them myself. Yet as I've unwillingly entered my 40's , I find myself doing exactly that ...judging the choices people make. Now before I am inundated with nasty comments about 'intolerance' and 'hypocrisy' let me make myself abundantly clear, I do not for one minute believe that it is OK to judge another person based on race, religion, sexual preference, level of education, or physical attributes (I'm sure I've missed some other important things but you get my drift), on the flip side however, I don't believe that we should be so non-judgmental that we blindly accept anyone or anything. The ability and duty to judge the actions of others is what defines us as a civilized society. It is the very act of imposing our judgm